Annoying Ass Family Members

I’m sorry Grandma, but I need to be honest. I have a hard time going through unemployment and blatantly being disrespected by all of my family and I am over it. I cannot wait for the day when Jesus blesses me with a job and I can go to work. I just want to be free and be left alone. I don’t like being around people that use envy and jealously as a way to make me feel like a piece of crap, I cannot deal with my own family anymore. I. am. done. Even if it means I have to stop going to family functions, then fine that is not a problem, I do not mind keeping my butt home and watch the Walking Dead. 

Pastor Allegedly Passes AIDS to Congregation Members

 

I can forgive for a lot of things, but passing AIDS and possibly passing the deadly disease to female church members, is unforgivable. Alabama pastor Juan Demetrius McFarland had reportedly started confessing his secrets during a series of sermon on September 14 . Now the church community in Alabama is fighting on whether or not McFarland should be fired and charged for his crime. Oh and did I forget that he was diagnosed with HIV in 2003 and then AIDS in 2008. In addition to having the disease and not telling anyone about it, he also confessed to steal and drug use.

What do you think should be done to this pastor?

Here’s more on the story:

http://www.wsfa.com/story/26737935/montgomery-pastor-admits-to-having-aids-sleeping-with-church-members

I Caught My Son in a Threesome

Jess:

My son goes to college about 2 hours away from home. He’s currently renting a house with two girls who I hadn’t met.

I recently got a job offer in the city, and I’m going to move in with a friend who lives there. I’m not sure on the specifics, but she had to prepare, so my son invited me to stay with him at his house for a few days. I told him to make sure his roommates were fine with it, and he said they were.

I told him that I would be there around 7 yesterday, and he said that no one was would be home until 9, so he would put a key underneath the flower pot so I could let myself in and put my stuff in his room.

I got there earlier, around 5. I let myself in to do just that since there weren’t any cars and knocking did no good. I saw them there in his room. They noticed the door open, I said I was sorry and I left as fast as I could.

I ignored my son’s texts and calls, just sent him something about staying in a hotel, where I am currently and am going to stay until I can move in with my friend.

It’s bothering me really badly. I can’t stop picturing it, I haven’t thrown up but I’ve gotten queasy thinking about it.

I need advice .

 

My response:

 

Talk to him and let him know that you felt uncomfortable, plus I want to you to speak with a counselor because I would be a little bit shocked if I caught my child in a threesome.

I Want To End My Engagement

Everybody is happy for us and I’m nervous about marrying her because she pretty much pressured me into proposing to her, constantly dropping hints, saying how happy it would make her, and how sad she’ll be if we’re not engaged by next summer. I (stupidly) thought that I could just propose and have a long engagement. But she’s decided the wedding is going to be in two years, and is already planning it. I guess This has made me think properly about if I want to spend the rest of my life with her. And sadly the answer is no. Not just a little no, but a complete no.

My problem is that I’m a people pleaser, she already has the life she wants planned out and stuffed me in the the husband position. And I let her because I’m not the most decisive person. Any time I expressed on an opinion on our future that differed from hers, she would get upset, cry and and I did the whole “no no no, It’s okay, we’ll do what you want” because I don’t want to upset her. We basically just give each other love but apart from that we have nothing in common.

I don’t think she’s being manipulative on purpose, she got out of a rough relationship before me, and apparently there something else which she wants to tell me but won’t because she doesn’t want to upset me. And a few nights ago she told me that she hates being alone and had a sort of panic attack about me going to see my friends this weekend, so I had to promise I’d stay and now my friends are annoyed at me because this isn’t the first time I’ve had to cancel on plans because of her. I once got back from the gym half an hour late and she was upset.

She lives with her parents, but they’re away at the moment. I’m staying at her house for 2 weeks before I go back to college. I want to break up with her next weekend so her parents are back because I don’t want her to be alone, she only has one real friend who she only she’s rarely.

She says I’m her best friend, and she loves me loads, and she was in a bad place before I came along, she doesn’t even like it when I sit on a different sofa. She wants me around every second but then never does anything with my company, I feel like and accessory to her.

I was a good/my first relationship to start, but now we barely do anything, when we do stuff it’s what she wants and I’m not even allowed to leave her side to do stuff I want on my own without her crying and guiltying me into staying with her. I feel so surpressed and miserable and like i’m falling apart. But she’s not a bad person so I don’t want to hurt her. But she’s emotionally manipulative, even if she’s not doing it on purpose.

 

My response:

 

Either way you need to tell her that you are not ready.

Help Me Save My Mother’s Home

I’m usually the funny and happy go lucky blogger with the crazy stories, but this is  a serious matter (which is the main reason of my lack of blogging) and I really hope that you all will have a heart and donate or spread the word about this situation.

On September 4th, 2014 my mother Sharon came home one evening and broke the news that our home was in foreclosure, I have never been so heartbroken in my life and even worse we come from a large family and no one is able to help us , but being in a single parent home its always been me and her. My mother never let the fact that she was a single parent limit her goals, she worked two jobs when I was born, she traveled one hour away from our hometown to go to work, which she still does today (and I am 25 years old), she helped me get into college, and still had time to be a great parent and now, its time for me to do everything possible to get her out of this situation, but its extremely hard trying to save money when things are falling apart ( car transmission failure, hvac going out, emergency root canal ) not to add everyday bills and with my inability to find work (even with a college degree in Business, I cannot even get hired at McDonalds) and her job is only paying $10 to $11 per hour ,its just really hard trying to save money and although this is very embarrassing to ask, my mother is losing hope and I am not about to give up without a fight. To get out of the foreclosure, we need $4,900, and whether its $1 ,$ 10, $100, or $1000 the amount will be greatly appreciated, I will be starting a GOFUNDME fundraiser in a few hours and I will be posting the link. If you are interested in giving a donation please let me know and if you are not able to, when I post the link please share it with others on Facebook or Twitter.

Thank You